CulturFest
Drove an hour south to Owatonna for this gig. Were put into a gym where the "dressing rooms" were separated by sheets on one side for ladies and on the other for men. The stage was set outside in the schoolyard where the weather was COLD, COLD, COLD! Honestly, I was having flashbacks of when I was in Barangay...CSFA actually reminds me of the humble beginnings we started dancing with. I know that I've often complained about the "professionalism" of this dance company and I'm still trying to internalize that. Something as simple as having everyone's hair (buns) and makeup the same just wasn't apparent. We might as well have left our hair teased up like everyone did in the 80's and it wouldn't have made a difference! Some of the aunties had their bun all done up all fancy that you'd think they were on their way to a formal; others' barely passed as a sufficient bun! Then, there's the jewelry issue...the nail polish issue...and how about the whole 'counting aloud' issue... I think that I've really expected a lot when I shouldn't. Did it feel good to be on stage and perform again? YES! But if ya'll were to ask me how the overall performance went? I'd say "mediocre." Am I being mean? No...just being honest. It was cool, though, to have been with the group, make my debut dancing, and get to know the other members a lil' bit more.
Ghetto
Just had to share. Hubby had ordered a water dispenser for our place. Deliveryman makes the drop at the main entrance. We check it out a few days later and see ONE bottle. We figure we'd pick it up later on in the day...it's a trek to bring it up to the third floor and plus, we don't normally go through that way, you know? A couple days later when we decide to get it, there's nothing there except our slip order...for TWO bottles! Last we saw, there was only ONE...which means, some ghetto ass person in our complex took our water! Hubby called the company and turns out that they aren't responsible for stolen bottles. Wouldn't even waive the bottles or offer any apologies. Hmph! Guess we'll be cancelling our orders....I totally miss Alhambra!
Lifetime Fitness
Yup! We joined a gym! It's been such a long time since we've both worked out and/or done some REAL activity...we figured it's time to get back into shape. Had our first of two assessment appointments- you know, the one where they pinch your fats and tell you exactly how out of shape you are and what our goals should be...the ones where your self-esteem goes through the roof 'cuz hey, before that, it took all that huffin' and puffin' just to make it upstairs! lol! Okay, it wasn't that bad, but the threadmill fitness test hurt...5 minutes of trying to keep up and concentrate on NOT falling off. Something to look forward to though...I'm not really into the machines much, but I will be getting into the aerobic classes, like kickboxing and maybe even, step aerobics. With the cold weather startin' to come not-yet-in-full-force, it'll be productive for us to be active. In any case, hopefully when ya'll see us again come December, that there'll be a difference that shows!
Tuesday, September 30, 2003
Friday, September 26, 2003
Kababayan
Friday nights are our scheduled small group meeting. Tonight's session was led by "Papa" Olojan. The focus was WORSHIP, what it is and how it relates to our purpose. Just like last week, I felt touched and I listened to the message with my heart. Since having asked Christ into my life last Friday, I've felt this "newness" in my life that is unexplainable. I feel like I'm looking at life with new eyes. I feel that the greatest thing has happened to me and it's all due to a decision I have made to have a "relationship" with Christ. Another woman who is part of the praise team at church was surprised that I am a "new Christian"...she said that just by looking at me, she thought I was an "old" Christian. But what she said afterwards got me and she commented that, "God must have been working through you for a while now." Anyways, the rest of the evening was spent meeting and getting to know new friends. Hubby and I met a couple who had recently moved to MN from CA...turns out that the husbands have mutual family friends and to top that, both their dads served in the Navy around the same time, same place! Talk about a small world, eh? They've only been in MN for 6 months, moved to the area because of a job relocation, and like us, don't have any family or friends out here. Very cool couple...ones whose "language" was like music to our ears! (inside joke, people!) We were venting about there is a total lack of Filipino stores and restaurants out here (um, there's only ONE!) and we jokingly mentioned that we should try and start one up. Hmmm.....wouldn't that be cool? Owner of a future Goldilock's in Woodbury, MN?! Woudn't be such a bad idea, eh??? Seriously though, tis nice to meet new friends, fellow kababayan, fellow Californians...there's a time and place for everything and I feel we were in the right place to meet the people we have in the short time we've been here.
CulturFest
Tomorrow is my first performance with CSFA in Owatonna, MN. I'm a tad bit nervous simply 'cuz it's been 4 years since I've last danced, but I'm hoping the nerves'll disappear once I get on stage. I'm no longer dancing Pandanggo/Oasiwas as I originally thought...actually, we had been rehearsing Singkil over and over and over that we rarely touched upon the Barrio suite. I will be dancing Ba Ingles, a cutesy and simple rural number. I have to keep telling myself that this isn't a professional group. We were being told to put our hair up in buns and I'm like, okay, standard info. But then the director went into this whole explanation that there's no dangling earrings allowed, but studs are okay; no jewelry, but if you're married, wedding bands are fine; all hair in buns, but if you've got short hair, leave it as is...Um, whoa! I've NEVER heard all that before! Eh, I don't know about all that...can't say that I agree with how things are done, but yah, gotta keep reminding myself that this isn't Larawan or Likha... On a cooler note, I've made a 'friend' who had "danced professionally" before. She's a cool chick who appreciates how rehearsals SHOULD be run...um, I'll leave it at that. In any case, I'm excited 'cuz this event is a coming together of the different cultures represented out here. I'll let you know how things go...
Friday nights are our scheduled small group meeting. Tonight's session was led by "Papa" Olojan. The focus was WORSHIP, what it is and how it relates to our purpose. Just like last week, I felt touched and I listened to the message with my heart. Since having asked Christ into my life last Friday, I've felt this "newness" in my life that is unexplainable. I feel like I'm looking at life with new eyes. I feel that the greatest thing has happened to me and it's all due to a decision I have made to have a "relationship" with Christ. Another woman who is part of the praise team at church was surprised that I am a "new Christian"...she said that just by looking at me, she thought I was an "old" Christian. But what she said afterwards got me and she commented that, "God must have been working through you for a while now." Anyways, the rest of the evening was spent meeting and getting to know new friends. Hubby and I met a couple who had recently moved to MN from CA...turns out that the husbands have mutual family friends and to top that, both their dads served in the Navy around the same time, same place! Talk about a small world, eh? They've only been in MN for 6 months, moved to the area because of a job relocation, and like us, don't have any family or friends out here. Very cool couple...ones whose "language" was like music to our ears! (inside joke, people!) We were venting about there is a total lack of Filipino stores and restaurants out here (um, there's only ONE!) and we jokingly mentioned that we should try and start one up. Hmmm.....wouldn't that be cool? Owner of a future Goldilock's in Woodbury, MN?! Woudn't be such a bad idea, eh??? Seriously though, tis nice to meet new friends, fellow kababayan, fellow Californians...there's a time and place for everything and I feel we were in the right place to meet the people we have in the short time we've been here.
CulturFest
Tomorrow is my first performance with CSFA in Owatonna, MN. I'm a tad bit nervous simply 'cuz it's been 4 years since I've last danced, but I'm hoping the nerves'll disappear once I get on stage. I'm no longer dancing Pandanggo/Oasiwas as I originally thought...actually, we had been rehearsing Singkil over and over and over that we rarely touched upon the Barrio suite. I will be dancing Ba Ingles, a cutesy and simple rural number. I have to keep telling myself that this isn't a professional group. We were being told to put our hair up in buns and I'm like, okay, standard info. But then the director went into this whole explanation that there's no dangling earrings allowed, but studs are okay; no jewelry, but if you're married, wedding bands are fine; all hair in buns, but if you've got short hair, leave it as is...Um, whoa! I've NEVER heard all that before! Eh, I don't know about all that...can't say that I agree with how things are done, but yah, gotta keep reminding myself that this isn't Larawan or Likha... On a cooler note, I've made a 'friend' who had "danced professionally" before. She's a cool chick who appreciates how rehearsals SHOULD be run...um, I'll leave it at that. In any case, I'm excited 'cuz this event is a coming together of the different cultures represented out here. I'll let you know how things go...
Thursday, September 25, 2003
Current Reads
To your left, I've got that whole "Currently Reading" section. I just wanted to share about "When the Rainbow Goddess Wept" by Cecilia Manguerra Brainard. It was on my last trip to da City when I was hangin' out at Barnes & Nobles and I was browsing when the cover of this book caught my eye. I saw an old black and white picture with women dressed in Maria Clara dresses and men in the traditional Barong Tagalog. In a nutshell (without giving away the ending), the story takes places before and during the Japanese invasion in the Philippines during WWII. It's more of a historical fiction told through the eyes of a young girl and it talks about the hardships of the people back in that time. It also brings into the mix a lot of Philippine mythology, which I thought was very cool. I bought it, excited that I had found it. My Dad wanted to read it first, and after a few days when he was done, told me that it's a good story but, "you won't understand it." He went on to further explain that story reminded him of when he was a kid. My Dad was born during the Japanese occupation and if the stories that I've heard are correct, my grandparents had to hide out in the mountains after his birth for fear of their lives. This book isn't for the faint of heart; it's gruesome in the details of how Filipinos were treated and tortured. I found myself getting teary-eyed and in some cases, had to put the book down and step away from it. It's a powerful read and it makes one understand that generation a little bit more. If you're looking for a good book, check this out. If ya'll can't find it, check Arkipelago Books and while you're at it, check out the other links on the site...very cool.
To your left, I've got that whole "Currently Reading" section. I just wanted to share about "When the Rainbow Goddess Wept" by Cecilia Manguerra Brainard. It was on my last trip to da City when I was hangin' out at Barnes & Nobles and I was browsing when the cover of this book caught my eye. I saw an old black and white picture with women dressed in Maria Clara dresses and men in the traditional Barong Tagalog. In a nutshell (without giving away the ending), the story takes places before and during the Japanese invasion in the Philippines during WWII. It's more of a historical fiction told through the eyes of a young girl and it talks about the hardships of the people back in that time. It also brings into the mix a lot of Philippine mythology, which I thought was very cool. I bought it, excited that I had found it. My Dad wanted to read it first, and after a few days when he was done, told me that it's a good story but, "you won't understand it." He went on to further explain that story reminded him of when he was a kid. My Dad was born during the Japanese occupation and if the stories that I've heard are correct, my grandparents had to hide out in the mountains after his birth for fear of their lives. This book isn't for the faint of heart; it's gruesome in the details of how Filipinos were treated and tortured. I found myself getting teary-eyed and in some cases, had to put the book down and step away from it. It's a powerful read and it makes one understand that generation a little bit more. If you're looking for a good book, check this out. If ya'll can't find it, check Arkipelago Books and while you're at it, check out the other links on the site...very cool.
Duluth, Minnesota
Hubby had to go to a site for work in Duluth, about 2 hours away from where we are. I decided to accompany hubby for the ride and to see what else MN has to offer. The ride itself was very scenic. The leaves are in the process of changin' colors and let me tell you, very pretty. Turns out that Duluth is way up north, about 20 minutes from the Wisconsin border, an old industrial city right on Lake Superior...yah, one of the Great Lakes! My one complaint about moving to the Midwest was the fact that I wouldn't have access to any beaches...REAL beaches, mind you, where the water goes as far as the eye can see into the horizon. Locals have bragged that they've got dozens of beaches at all the lakes here. Bah! That just ain't the same...I don't want to be mesmerized by the water and waves only to have a jogger pass my line of vision on the other side of the lake! Nuh uh! So as we drive into Duluth, Lake Superior can't help but catch my eye and wow! I thought I was back in the Bay! It's HUGE! It's not like anyone can run a couple miles around it, no way. It was like looking out into the vast ocean. We walked along a pier that went a ways out- lake looked pretty deep to me! There were sailboats and kayakers out and one of the first thoughts that came to mind was, "Do you think there are sharks in this lake?" LOL! C'mon...I've watched "Jaws" way too many times! Nonetheless, the city itself is considered a lil' getaway...put in Bay Area terms, it's a cross between Sausalito and Monterey. Seems there's lots to do there and it being just a few hours away, gives one an excuse to ditch work for a day. In case you're interested, check out Duluth for yourself.
Birthday reflections
On Monday (9/22), I sent an email to one of my oldest friends from college, Guam1. We had met as part of the freshmen crew at SFState and have been friends ever since. Our lives have gone separate paths since then, but still keep in touch for birthdays and holidays. I had to mention this because Guam1 emailed me a note of thanks for remembering his b-day. He also wrote that it's just amazing how after all these years, we've remained friends even though we don't keep in touch as often. I'm a true believer in that...just because friends don't call each other everyday or hang out as often as they'd like, time and distance shouldn't be a factor. You pick up where you last left off, just like you do when you bookmark a page in a book. Things do not necessarily have to change; you start back up where you left off. It'd just be wrong to say that you don't have anything in common with someone because of time away from a friendship because you've missed out on certain events in their life that you're cut out for good. I'm saying this because this is the exact thing that has happened in my life. You could say I was bitter about it all, but I'm all good now. My life has turned for the better and if you know me well, you'd know I have no regrets. Life ain't fair all the time and it can be a total bitch, too, but I also believe that all things happen for a reason and all people who come into our lives have a purpose...some come and go, some remain and stick around for the long haul, but all come to touch a life in their own special way. That's the way I look at it and that's what I'm stickin' to.
On a side note, I never finished up my last week in da City. The Saturday before we left, it was my Apu's ("grandmother" in Kapangpangan) 87th birthday. I was looking forward to the birthday because I knew this was the perfect time to say my goodbyes for now to family. Twasn't a huge gathering unlike our other parties, but still lots of good food (lumpia!) to go around. Hubby and I couldn't really stay long 'cuz we had to finish up our packing and so I started my rounds. You know, this whole move has been very emotional for me and I've been really proud that the "dam of emotions" hadn't broken...until I hugged my Apu. She asked me why we were leaving so early and I explained that we still had to pack...pack for what, she asked...for our flight to Minnesota. She knew that I was moving, but that look of surprise on her face tugged at my heart. She gave me one of those hugs that linger, the ones where you don't want to let go, but have to...yah, one of those. I had to pull away from her 'cuz I felt my eyes fill up. I didn't want to cry! We started for the stairs while I tried to compose myself when Apu started calling my name. She literally pushed hubby aside and threw her arms around me and without saying a word, gave me the biggest bear hug. That did it...the tears came. You know when you start to cry and you try your damndest to hold it back, but it only makes it worse and it ends up making you like a blubbering idiot? Yah, that was me. I had also wanted to give Sabrina and Nico a lil' talk...you know, be good, listen to your mom and dad, say your prayers, help take care of your lil' brother, do well in school...that kind of thing, but I didn't. I think if I did, the entire dam would've given way. I hope they know how much I miss them...
UNPACKING...still!
I've lost track of how many days it has taken us to unpack our stuff...we HAVE made a dent, tho! The walls are no longer bare...ya'll know how I hate white space! We've put up our Kim Taylor Reece art pieces and I have to say, it gives the living room some "character." The TV, entertainment, and surround sound has been set up and we've got candles galore everywhere for that extra touch. It'll be nice when it's all set up, kalat gone, and ready for visitors...that's a hint, people!
Hubby had to go to a site for work in Duluth, about 2 hours away from where we are. I decided to accompany hubby for the ride and to see what else MN has to offer. The ride itself was very scenic. The leaves are in the process of changin' colors and let me tell you, very pretty. Turns out that Duluth is way up north, about 20 minutes from the Wisconsin border, an old industrial city right on Lake Superior...yah, one of the Great Lakes! My one complaint about moving to the Midwest was the fact that I wouldn't have access to any beaches...REAL beaches, mind you, where the water goes as far as the eye can see into the horizon. Locals have bragged that they've got dozens of beaches at all the lakes here. Bah! That just ain't the same...I don't want to be mesmerized by the water and waves only to have a jogger pass my line of vision on the other side of the lake! Nuh uh! So as we drive into Duluth, Lake Superior can't help but catch my eye and wow! I thought I was back in the Bay! It's HUGE! It's not like anyone can run a couple miles around it, no way. It was like looking out into the vast ocean. We walked along a pier that went a ways out- lake looked pretty deep to me! There were sailboats and kayakers out and one of the first thoughts that came to mind was, "Do you think there are sharks in this lake?" LOL! C'mon...I've watched "Jaws" way too many times! Nonetheless, the city itself is considered a lil' getaway...put in Bay Area terms, it's a cross between Sausalito and Monterey. Seems there's lots to do there and it being just a few hours away, gives one an excuse to ditch work for a day. In case you're interested, check out Duluth for yourself.
Birthday reflections
On Monday (9/22), I sent an email to one of my oldest friends from college, Guam1. We had met as part of the freshmen crew at SFState and have been friends ever since. Our lives have gone separate paths since then, but still keep in touch for birthdays and holidays. I had to mention this because Guam1 emailed me a note of thanks for remembering his b-day. He also wrote that it's just amazing how after all these years, we've remained friends even though we don't keep in touch as often. I'm a true believer in that...just because friends don't call each other everyday or hang out as often as they'd like, time and distance shouldn't be a factor. You pick up where you last left off, just like you do when you bookmark a page in a book. Things do not necessarily have to change; you start back up where you left off. It'd just be wrong to say that you don't have anything in common with someone because of time away from a friendship because you've missed out on certain events in their life that you're cut out for good. I'm saying this because this is the exact thing that has happened in my life. You could say I was bitter about it all, but I'm all good now. My life has turned for the better and if you know me well, you'd know I have no regrets. Life ain't fair all the time and it can be a total bitch, too, but I also believe that all things happen for a reason and all people who come into our lives have a purpose...some come and go, some remain and stick around for the long haul, but all come to touch a life in their own special way. That's the way I look at it and that's what I'm stickin' to.
On a side note, I never finished up my last week in da City. The Saturday before we left, it was my Apu's ("grandmother" in Kapangpangan) 87th birthday. I was looking forward to the birthday because I knew this was the perfect time to say my goodbyes for now to family. Twasn't a huge gathering unlike our other parties, but still lots of good food (lumpia!) to go around. Hubby and I couldn't really stay long 'cuz we had to finish up our packing and so I started my rounds. You know, this whole move has been very emotional for me and I've been really proud that the "dam of emotions" hadn't broken...until I hugged my Apu. She asked me why we were leaving so early and I explained that we still had to pack...pack for what, she asked...for our flight to Minnesota. She knew that I was moving, but that look of surprise on her face tugged at my heart. She gave me one of those hugs that linger, the ones where you don't want to let go, but have to...yah, one of those. I had to pull away from her 'cuz I felt my eyes fill up. I didn't want to cry! We started for the stairs while I tried to compose myself when Apu started calling my name. She literally pushed hubby aside and threw her arms around me and without saying a word, gave me the biggest bear hug. That did it...the tears came. You know when you start to cry and you try your damndest to hold it back, but it only makes it worse and it ends up making you like a blubbering idiot? Yah, that was me. I had also wanted to give Sabrina and Nico a lil' talk...you know, be good, listen to your mom and dad, say your prayers, help take care of your lil' brother, do well in school...that kind of thing, but I didn't. I think if I did, the entire dam would've given way. I hope they know how much I miss them...
UNPACKING...still!
I've lost track of how many days it has taken us to unpack our stuff...we HAVE made a dent, tho! The walls are no longer bare...ya'll know how I hate white space! We've put up our Kim Taylor Reece art pieces and I have to say, it gives the living room some "character." The TV, entertainment, and surround sound has been set up and we've got candles galore everywhere for that extra touch. It'll be nice when it's all set up, kalat gone, and ready for visitors...that's a hint, people!
Monday, September 22, 2003
Ficocello's
When hubby first saw this place right around the corner from our apartment, he thought it was some Italian restaurant...turns out it was a hair salon! LOL! On Friday, I went to get a haircut...a very cute one at that! You know how it is...lookin' all good in the salon, but once you take a step outside, all hell breaks loose! Haha, I hate that! But fortunately, the 'do remained flawless for the rest of the evening and well into the next day. Yah, I took picture of it! When I get it developed (um, yet to get a digital cam! sheesh, of all people, eh?!), I'll post it up! Btw: thanks to hubby for the day of pampering...much love!
Ain't Nothin' to Do in Minnesota!
Did I really say that?! I've been back a week as of today (Sunday) and already, I've been casted in 2 dances for an upcoming performance, I joined and sang (with my own mic!Eek!) with a praise team for the Fil-Am Church where Ran is drummer, too, AND as of last Friday, accepted Christ as my Savior! Honestly, it's really just a beginning for me. For the first time, I attended a small group meeting where we watched and discussed a video titled, "The Purpose Driven Life" by Pastor Rick Warren. There is this campaign at church called the "40 Days of Purpose." In a nutshell, we will be focusing on finding out our purpose in life and how it relates to God's purpose for us. Many of you probably know that I have struggled with and questioned my Catholic faith since college. Being that I was born and raised Catholic, Catholic was all I ever knew. I had learned the prayers, went to Masses every Sunday, recited the rosaries, was baptized, received holy communion, and was confirmed. I went through all the motions that all Catholic kids go through. But I never really understood or could explain WHY I did the things I did at Church. I just did them. This is not to say that my Catholic upbringing has been a waste- totally far from it! I am grateful to have been brought up the way I have been, modeled and guided to believe in the things I did, and set examples by parents, family, and Church on how to be a good person. It was NOT all done in vain. But as I got older, I began to think for myself (oh horrors!). During my SFState days and through my life experiences, I've questioned my faith one too many times. There had been a gap in my life that I could not quite explain. After meeting hubby and talking opening about Christianity, my eyes started to open. I began going to different non-denominational churches and found myself being "touched" in ways that I never felt at my own church. Needless to say, I knew that I was on the path to receiving Christ into my heart...it was more of a question of WHY, and not a question of WHEN. I wanted to make sure that I was choosing to be a Christian for the right reasons. At the small group meeting last Friday as we watched a video, Rick Warren recited a prayer via VHS. We all closed our eyes and prayed together. I prayed along wholeheartedly, asking Jesus to come into my heart. Now, I have watched those evangelistic shows before and I have prayed along during the part where we ask Jesus into our hearts. Yet, I never "felt" like it was significant. I guess because in the Catholic church, being baptized is a huge event and saying a prayer with a televised program just seemed semi-anticlimactic. According to hubby, there IS more than saying a prayer to becoming a Christian. There's the whole immersion during baptism, being reborn in Christ and having our sins washed away. As everyone shared about the moment or circumstance that led them to become Christians, I realized that YES, I have accepted Christ into my heart, BUT, I have still so much to learn about my relationship with Him. This is only my first step. I am hoping that during this "40 Days of Purpose" that I will have that chance to do just that. It is a life-changing decision and I am damn glad I did it.
49 Degrees
So I hear that back in the Bay Area the weather is HOT! How ironic that I was complaining of that very thing a couple of weeks ago here in Minnesota...not to mention the icky humidity. For the past few days, we have been reveling in this "Bay-Area-like" weather...overcast...rainy...49 degrees. Ahhhhhh...niiiicccceeeeee. It's really started to cool down over here, but was actually alarmed to find out that Fall doesn't last too long over here. I was all lookin' forward to the changing of the leaves and the beauty of it all....I STILL am, don't get me wrong, but according to the locals out here, "winter weather" (aka snow, ice, freezing cold weather) can begin anytime starting end of October and lasting until April! (can you guys re-read that last sentence again...."October until April!" Good Lord! NOT lookin' forward to that...40 below freezing, um, no thanks! But don't worry, we'll brace the freezing snow to take pics of snowmen and snow angels...haha, I've always wanted to make one!
When hubby first saw this place right around the corner from our apartment, he thought it was some Italian restaurant...turns out it was a hair salon! LOL! On Friday, I went to get a haircut...a very cute one at that! You know how it is...lookin' all good in the salon, but once you take a step outside, all hell breaks loose! Haha, I hate that! But fortunately, the 'do remained flawless for the rest of the evening and well into the next day. Yah, I took picture of it! When I get it developed (um, yet to get a digital cam! sheesh, of all people, eh?!), I'll post it up! Btw: thanks to hubby for the day of pampering...much love!
Ain't Nothin' to Do in Minnesota!
Did I really say that?! I've been back a week as of today (Sunday) and already, I've been casted in 2 dances for an upcoming performance, I joined and sang (with my own mic!Eek!) with a praise team for the Fil-Am Church where Ran is drummer, too, AND as of last Friday, accepted Christ as my Savior! Honestly, it's really just a beginning for me. For the first time, I attended a small group meeting where we watched and discussed a video titled, "The Purpose Driven Life" by Pastor Rick Warren. There is this campaign at church called the "40 Days of Purpose." In a nutshell, we will be focusing on finding out our purpose in life and how it relates to God's purpose for us. Many of you probably know that I have struggled with and questioned my Catholic faith since college. Being that I was born and raised Catholic, Catholic was all I ever knew. I had learned the prayers, went to Masses every Sunday, recited the rosaries, was baptized, received holy communion, and was confirmed. I went through all the motions that all Catholic kids go through. But I never really understood or could explain WHY I did the things I did at Church. I just did them. This is not to say that my Catholic upbringing has been a waste- totally far from it! I am grateful to have been brought up the way I have been, modeled and guided to believe in the things I did, and set examples by parents, family, and Church on how to be a good person. It was NOT all done in vain. But as I got older, I began to think for myself (oh horrors!). During my SFState days and through my life experiences, I've questioned my faith one too many times. There had been a gap in my life that I could not quite explain. After meeting hubby and talking opening about Christianity, my eyes started to open. I began going to different non-denominational churches and found myself being "touched" in ways that I never felt at my own church. Needless to say, I knew that I was on the path to receiving Christ into my heart...it was more of a question of WHY, and not a question of WHEN. I wanted to make sure that I was choosing to be a Christian for the right reasons. At the small group meeting last Friday as we watched a video, Rick Warren recited a prayer via VHS. We all closed our eyes and prayed together. I prayed along wholeheartedly, asking Jesus to come into my heart. Now, I have watched those evangelistic shows before and I have prayed along during the part where we ask Jesus into our hearts. Yet, I never "felt" like it was significant. I guess because in the Catholic church, being baptized is a huge event and saying a prayer with a televised program just seemed semi-anticlimactic. According to hubby, there IS more than saying a prayer to becoming a Christian. There's the whole immersion during baptism, being reborn in Christ and having our sins washed away. As everyone shared about the moment or circumstance that led them to become Christians, I realized that YES, I have accepted Christ into my heart, BUT, I have still so much to learn about my relationship with Him. This is only my first step. I am hoping that during this "40 Days of Purpose" that I will have that chance to do just that. It is a life-changing decision and I am damn glad I did it.
49 Degrees
So I hear that back in the Bay Area the weather is HOT! How ironic that I was complaining of that very thing a couple of weeks ago here in Minnesota...not to mention the icky humidity. For the past few days, we have been reveling in this "Bay-Area-like" weather...overcast...rainy...49 degrees. Ahhhhhh...niiiicccceeeeee. It's really started to cool down over here, but was actually alarmed to find out that Fall doesn't last too long over here. I was all lookin' forward to the changing of the leaves and the beauty of it all....I STILL am, don't get me wrong, but according to the locals out here, "winter weather" (aka snow, ice, freezing cold weather) can begin anytime starting end of October and lasting until April! (can you guys re-read that last sentence again...."October until April!" Good Lord! NOT lookin' forward to that...40 below freezing, um, no thanks! But don't worry, we'll brace the freezing snow to take pics of snowmen and snow angels...haha, I've always wanted to make one!
Friday, September 19, 2003
I forgot to finish up my weekend in the Bay! I'll "try" and keep it brief...some people are tellin' me that my blogs are too damn long (boo on you guys!)...hey man, it's my website and I'll make it as long as I want! Anyways... =)
SEPT 12- da wedding
Got up early to run some last minute errands before the wedding. The weather was exceptionally perfect- not a cloud in the sky! Had to drop hubby off downtown at the hotel so the groomsmen could get ready. Felt pressed for time 'cuz the wedding was for 5pm...on a Friday...at St. Mary's Cathedral...during rush hour! Good Lord! Who has weddings at this time of the week?! LOL! Apparently, those who'd like to punish their guests and force them to take half days off from work, that's who! I'm playin! Well here's another smart move by the bride and groom...on the invitations, they put the wedding at 5pm...turns out the ceremony doesn't begin until 5:30pm! Ah hah...they did that whole accomodating thing for late comers and Filipino-time arrivals...good thinking! The wedding party arrived in style in their H2 stretch limo...hubby says as spacious as it was, twas cramped 'cuz of the bridesmaids....hahaha, ya'll know how much room women need! The ceremony itself was beautiful. They had a white runner strewn with rose petals...SILK petals! LOL! You know how many people bent down and picked them up only to drop 'em back when the realized they were fake? People, I'm not hatin'...I was one of them folks! LOL! Seriously, it looked elegant. What made it even more beautiful was the cathedral choir...their voices and harmony just added even more. The bridesmaids wore red, red, red dresses with matching red, red, red shoes. Personally, I'd never be bold enough to choose that color, but wow, it looked so nice! The groomsmen, esp my baby, looked real sharp in their tuxes. Aileen wore a strapless gown that really made her look beautiful. While they said (or actually, read) their vows, Aileen got all choked up and started crying. Dang, if ya'll know how I get during Hallmark commercials, you KNOW that I got choked up, too! With the exception of the bride's train coming off, the rest of the ceremony seemed perfect.
The reception was held at the Palace Hotel(check out the link, and take a virtual tour of the Garden Court). When you walk in, the first thing that hits you is, "WOW!" First of all, this being a 4 Star luxury hotel, it just blows your mind! The place was lit up by candles galore, giving that romantic feel to the room. Since Aileen and Ed wanted to do something unique, their reception was casino-style, complete with blackjack, craps, and roulette tables spread out throughout the room. They had both a live band and a dj, too. At the door, we were all given chips for drinks (open bar, WORD!) and a card worth 250 gambling chips. Whoever had the most chips at the end of the night would win a prize. Seeing that hubby was groomsman and best bud of the groom, Ran seemed to have all these "extra" chips that night. Let me tell you this- HELLA drinks were consumed that night! With this being one of the last times hubby would get to hang out with his former co-workers,etc, I already knew that he'd be drinkin' up. (Btw: after all these years, this was the FIRST time I actually met his co-workers! Here they were thinking that Rando's wife was "Snufalufagus!" LOL! Lil' side joke there...Got to meet Calvin, (Kiki's hubby), JP and wife Kim, etc.) The ladies at our table drank up, too! Maria, Sharon, and I hung out most of the evening...Sharon with her unlimited refills of red wine...that girl, yes, Mrs. Sharon, was BUZZED! LOL! Me, I was enjoying the champagne, Ran's, Sharon's, and mine! Like I said, it was open bar...you gotta take advantage of that, eh?! So while our husbands were either dancing, drinking, or talking computers (yah, all three of them!), us ladies went to the bar to have ourselves Kamikaze shots! Man, they were huge AND strong as hell! Aren't they supposed to water down these drinks at weddings?! LOL! Anyways, Maria and I did our thang, but Sharon chickened out. But nonetheless, it was fun and cool to hang out and drink up with my homegirls! =) As always, there was a question as to who would take the center piece...(Sharon took it!)...but we both took candles, too! According to Sharon, they were Crate and Barrel candles...now, they're nice accessories to my bathroom! LOL! Gotta say though, that was one of the funnest and best weddings I've ever been to.
One last thing: the matron of honor's speech was tight. She did the whole reminiscing thang and how the couple met,etc. One part stood out and I'd like to share that here: "One piece of advice. Never lie, steal, or cheat. But if you lie, lie in each other's arms. If you steal, steal kisses. And if you cheat, cheat death together." Much love and congrats go out to Ed and Aileen Fernandez...
SEPT 12- da wedding
Got up early to run some last minute errands before the wedding. The weather was exceptionally perfect- not a cloud in the sky! Had to drop hubby off downtown at the hotel so the groomsmen could get ready. Felt pressed for time 'cuz the wedding was for 5pm...on a Friday...at St. Mary's Cathedral...during rush hour! Good Lord! Who has weddings at this time of the week?! LOL! Apparently, those who'd like to punish their guests and force them to take half days off from work, that's who! I'm playin! Well here's another smart move by the bride and groom...on the invitations, they put the wedding at 5pm...turns out the ceremony doesn't begin until 5:30pm! Ah hah...they did that whole accomodating thing for late comers and Filipino-time arrivals...good thinking! The wedding party arrived in style in their H2 stretch limo...hubby says as spacious as it was, twas cramped 'cuz of the bridesmaids....hahaha, ya'll know how much room women need! The ceremony itself was beautiful. They had a white runner strewn with rose petals...SILK petals! LOL! You know how many people bent down and picked them up only to drop 'em back when the realized they were fake? People, I'm not hatin'...I was one of them folks! LOL! Seriously, it looked elegant. What made it even more beautiful was the cathedral choir...their voices and harmony just added even more. The bridesmaids wore red, red, red dresses with matching red, red, red shoes. Personally, I'd never be bold enough to choose that color, but wow, it looked so nice! The groomsmen, esp my baby, looked real sharp in their tuxes. Aileen wore a strapless gown that really made her look beautiful. While they said (or actually, read) their vows, Aileen got all choked up and started crying. Dang, if ya'll know how I get during Hallmark commercials, you KNOW that I got choked up, too! With the exception of the bride's train coming off, the rest of the ceremony seemed perfect.
The reception was held at the Palace Hotel(check out the link, and take a virtual tour of the Garden Court). When you walk in, the first thing that hits you is, "WOW!" First of all, this being a 4 Star luxury hotel, it just blows your mind! The place was lit up by candles galore, giving that romantic feel to the room. Since Aileen and Ed wanted to do something unique, their reception was casino-style, complete with blackjack, craps, and roulette tables spread out throughout the room. They had both a live band and a dj, too. At the door, we were all given chips for drinks (open bar, WORD!) and a card worth 250 gambling chips. Whoever had the most chips at the end of the night would win a prize. Seeing that hubby was groomsman and best bud of the groom, Ran seemed to have all these "extra" chips that night. Let me tell you this- HELLA drinks were consumed that night! With this being one of the last times hubby would get to hang out with his former co-workers,etc, I already knew that he'd be drinkin' up. (Btw: after all these years, this was the FIRST time I actually met his co-workers! Here they were thinking that Rando's wife was "Snufalufagus!" LOL! Lil' side joke there...Got to meet Calvin, (Kiki's hubby), JP and wife Kim, etc.) The ladies at our table drank up, too! Maria, Sharon, and I hung out most of the evening...Sharon with her unlimited refills of red wine...that girl, yes, Mrs. Sharon, was BUZZED! LOL! Me, I was enjoying the champagne, Ran's, Sharon's, and mine! Like I said, it was open bar...you gotta take advantage of that, eh?! So while our husbands were either dancing, drinking, or talking computers (yah, all three of them!), us ladies went to the bar to have ourselves Kamikaze shots! Man, they were huge AND strong as hell! Aren't they supposed to water down these drinks at weddings?! LOL! Anyways, Maria and I did our thang, but Sharon chickened out. But nonetheless, it was fun and cool to hang out and drink up with my homegirls! =) As always, there was a question as to who would take the center piece...(Sharon took it!)...but we both took candles, too! According to Sharon, they were Crate and Barrel candles...now, they're nice accessories to my bathroom! LOL! Gotta say though, that was one of the funnest and best weddings I've ever been to.
One last thing: the matron of honor's speech was tight. She did the whole reminiscing thang and how the couple met,etc. One part stood out and I'd like to share that here: "One piece of advice. Never lie, steal, or cheat. But if you lie, lie in each other's arms. If you steal, steal kisses. And if you cheat, cheat death together." Much love and congrats go out to Ed and Aileen Fernandez...
Thursday, September 18, 2003
Forever a Fan Girl!
I've returned to Thursday night practice of Filipino folk dancing. If ya'll remember that first time I went, the "Fast Tinikling" got me gasping for breath! LOL! Knowing that they'd be rehearsing for an upcoming performance, I didn't think I'd get casted for anything considering my absence. Guess again! Now people, I haven't performed for the last 4 years and now they expect me to learn a couple of dances with only 2 more practices! Aiya! The dances that I'll be doing are "old" to me, but the choreography is definitely new. For the barrio suite, I'll be dancing Pandanggo / Oasiwas- the one where the gal balances a candle on her head and a candle in each hand. Apparently, they split the dances up: one group will do Pandanggo and another group does Oasiwas. The group I'd be dancing with kept asking me which one I'd rather do: 'part 1 or part 2?' Eh? Took me a minute to realize how they do things. btw: I chose 'part 2- Oasiwas.'
Singkil: this dance is supposed to depict the story of a skilled and agile Princess moving gracefully through the bamboo sticks. It's a solemn wedding dance...a dance of royalty. And this is not to bag on this dance group and/or to say that they don't know what they're doing, but...with only 2 more practice left, there isn't anyone who knows their part 100% with confidence! Goodness! I mean, the Princess (who's a real cool chick) was having all kinds of problems crossing the sticks, probably because the clappers didn't know and couldn't keep up with the rhythm! Wasn't looking so graceful as she was too busy trying not to get her feet caught! Not that I'd be any better- I'll be the first to admit that I'm not the best or most graceful dancer, but you know what? You gotta make it look like you are in this kind of dance. It's all about the attitude that the dancers exude. If it LOOKS like you know what you're doing (even tho you're messing up big time!), you keep going and the audience will never know the difference. Us Fan girls (yes, I'm a fan girl once again!) were told to go here and there and to do this and that. Eh? C'mon people! I had to ask exactly when to flip the fans 'cuz it was killing me that we were not all in sync! Oh yah, they tell me, we have to work on that. Helloooo! When? We should've figured that out earlier! One more thing: I was constantly being corrected for holding the fan wrong. Eek! Hahaha! Honestly, I learned to hold an unglued fan open, even if it meant getting cramps or spasms in your fingers! The fans we use are GLUED. Should be easier, but like I said, the whole relearning thing'll take time. All that aside, it is NICE to be back into dancing. It's less stressful that it's not in the professional sense that I'm used to...nothing being thrown at us whenever we miscounted, practicing until 1am in the morning, and trying to lose weight to be in certain dances and/or having to audition for certain parts...but at the same time, I could see how much more can be done if there was more discipline on everyone's part. Oh well, wish me luck as I try to get out of this rusty skin and back into performance mode...
DAY 4: UNPACKING. Actually started clearing out boxes from the rooms and the place is beginning to look like an actual place of residence. Hey! I could see the color of the rug again! Whoo hoo! So far, the kitchen, dining room, and one of the bathrooms are done. It's still a pain in the butt...will it ever end?! Hubby says that by the time we finish up, our lease will be up...awwww hell no!
I've returned to Thursday night practice of Filipino folk dancing. If ya'll remember that first time I went, the "Fast Tinikling" got me gasping for breath! LOL! Knowing that they'd be rehearsing for an upcoming performance, I didn't think I'd get casted for anything considering my absence. Guess again! Now people, I haven't performed for the last 4 years and now they expect me to learn a couple of dances with only 2 more practices! Aiya! The dances that I'll be doing are "old" to me, but the choreography is definitely new. For the barrio suite, I'll be dancing Pandanggo / Oasiwas- the one where the gal balances a candle on her head and a candle in each hand. Apparently, they split the dances up: one group will do Pandanggo and another group does Oasiwas. The group I'd be dancing with kept asking me which one I'd rather do: 'part 1 or part 2?' Eh? Took me a minute to realize how they do things. btw: I chose 'part 2- Oasiwas.'
Singkil: this dance is supposed to depict the story of a skilled and agile Princess moving gracefully through the bamboo sticks. It's a solemn wedding dance...a dance of royalty. And this is not to bag on this dance group and/or to say that they don't know what they're doing, but...with only 2 more practice left, there isn't anyone who knows their part 100% with confidence! Goodness! I mean, the Princess (who's a real cool chick) was having all kinds of problems crossing the sticks, probably because the clappers didn't know and couldn't keep up with the rhythm! Wasn't looking so graceful as she was too busy trying not to get her feet caught! Not that I'd be any better- I'll be the first to admit that I'm not the best or most graceful dancer, but you know what? You gotta make it look like you are in this kind of dance. It's all about the attitude that the dancers exude. If it LOOKS like you know what you're doing (even tho you're messing up big time!), you keep going and the audience will never know the difference. Us Fan girls (yes, I'm a fan girl once again!) were told to go here and there and to do this and that. Eh? C'mon people! I had to ask exactly when to flip the fans 'cuz it was killing me that we were not all in sync! Oh yah, they tell me, we have to work on that. Helloooo! When? We should've figured that out earlier! One more thing: I was constantly being corrected for holding the fan wrong. Eek! Hahaha! Honestly, I learned to hold an unglued fan open, even if it meant getting cramps or spasms in your fingers! The fans we use are GLUED. Should be easier, but like I said, the whole relearning thing'll take time. All that aside, it is NICE to be back into dancing. It's less stressful that it's not in the professional sense that I'm used to...nothing being thrown at us whenever we miscounted, practicing until 1am in the morning, and trying to lose weight to be in certain dances and/or having to audition for certain parts...but at the same time, I could see how much more can be done if there was more discipline on everyone's part. Oh well, wish me luck as I try to get out of this rusty skin and back into performance mode...
DAY 4: UNPACKING. Actually started clearing out boxes from the rooms and the place is beginning to look like an actual place of residence. Hey! I could see the color of the rug again! Whoo hoo! So far, the kitchen, dining room, and one of the bathrooms are done. It's still a pain in the butt...will it ever end?! Hubby says that by the time we finish up, our lease will be up...awwww hell no!
Wednesday, September 17, 2003
DAY 3: UNPACKING. Didn't actually open up any boxes today. Went shopping instead to buy some other home essentials. Was actually good...didn't leave the store with unnecessary kalat like I usually do. Tis especially hard at Target tho, ya'll know how it is. [patting myself on the back] =)
Sam's Club vs. Costco
From what I've heard, there's only 2 Costco's in our area and the closest one is about 30 minutes out. Ugh. Found a Costco-like place called Sam's Club, which the lady at the counter said "it's better than Costco." Ooops! 'Scuse me lady! It was a nicely stocked warehouse and although I hate to admit it, they've got some cool selections for clothes! Hey! No tax on clothes in MN! Is that the coolest or what?! For those shopaholics out there, it's a sale everyday! LOL! So 'course we're still in that comparing mode of prices in MN vs. CA...I got all excited when we got to the film and development center...for single prints, it costs only $2.97 and for double prints, only $3.96! Last time I checked in da City, single prints were something like $7! Sigh of relief we found a place...don't know if we're willing to drive 30 minutes...according to the local Minnesotan, anything 15-20 minutes is faarrrrrrrrr!
SEPT 11
Can't believe it's really been two years...this day will forever be etched in our minds. There were so many specials during the week to commemorate 9/11- some still painful to watch, and yet still I was glued to the TV.
On a brighter note, hubby and I went to the wedding rehearsal of friend Ed(die Haskell!). The ongoing joke with Ed and Aileen is that we're their "poor friends." The wedding is to take place at St. Mary's Cathedral in S.F. It's such a beautiful church! (check out the link)(btw: ain't that many people who could actually AFFORD to get married there!) It's actually the church where most of the private high schools in da City graduate. It was where I graduated! Ed is actually one of Ran's former co-workers and best buds. Twas one of the reasons why Ran came out to the Bay...to be a groomsman in the wedding party. The rehearsal was conducted by a wedding coordinator/drill seargeant kind of lady. Didn't really pay much attention 'cuz I was hanging out with my weekend homegirl, Kiki- the wife of another of Ran's former co-workers. Ya'll know how it is when you first meet someone...gotta be all proper, watching your manners and language...til someone "breaks" and then the ghetto-ness emerges! LOL! By the end of the day, we were acting like long-lost girlfriends! Fun chick, that Kiki. Afterwards, the wedding party had dinner at a lil' Thai restaurant in Japantown, Jitlada's. Small hole in the wall on Sutter. Sorry guys, don't have the link, cross street, or menu. Hahaha. Look it up tho, the satay was yum!
After dinner, the groomsmen took Ed for his last "bachelor party." Ran wasn't in the mood, so we had some time to kill to ourselves. If ya'll remember this week, the weather was just totally awesome! Clear blue, cloudless skies! Ran decided to drive us to Twin Peaks. For a weekday, it was unusually crowded with couples holding hands, tourists taking kodak moments (us included!), guys drinkin' up, and people smokin' out. With all that happening, it was a truly perfect night with hubby...even tho we DID get a second hand high from them punks gettin' lit! Got into that sentimental mode considering that we were going to be on a plane to Minnesota in the next few days. Ya'll could clearly see the Bay Bridge and the Golden Gate Bridge, and just the sights of da City were simply breathtaking. Made me truly appreciate the beauty of San Francisco and made me realize how much I'm going to miss it. Twas a beautiful night spent with my honey and a perfect way to end my stay.
Sam's Club vs. Costco
From what I've heard, there's only 2 Costco's in our area and the closest one is about 30 minutes out. Ugh. Found a Costco-like place called Sam's Club, which the lady at the counter said "it's better than Costco." Ooops! 'Scuse me lady! It was a nicely stocked warehouse and although I hate to admit it, they've got some cool selections for clothes! Hey! No tax on clothes in MN! Is that the coolest or what?! For those shopaholics out there, it's a sale everyday! LOL! So 'course we're still in that comparing mode of prices in MN vs. CA...I got all excited when we got to the film and development center...for single prints, it costs only $2.97 and for double prints, only $3.96! Last time I checked in da City, single prints were something like $7! Sigh of relief we found a place...don't know if we're willing to drive 30 minutes...according to the local Minnesotan, anything 15-20 minutes is faarrrrrrrrr!
SEPT 11
Can't believe it's really been two years...this day will forever be etched in our minds. There were so many specials during the week to commemorate 9/11- some still painful to watch, and yet still I was glued to the TV.
On a brighter note, hubby and I went to the wedding rehearsal of friend Ed(die Haskell!). The ongoing joke with Ed and Aileen is that we're their "poor friends." The wedding is to take place at St. Mary's Cathedral in S.F. It's such a beautiful church! (check out the link)(btw: ain't that many people who could actually AFFORD to get married there!) It's actually the church where most of the private high schools in da City graduate. It was where I graduated! Ed is actually one of Ran's former co-workers and best buds. Twas one of the reasons why Ran came out to the Bay...to be a groomsman in the wedding party. The rehearsal was conducted by a wedding coordinator/drill seargeant kind of lady. Didn't really pay much attention 'cuz I was hanging out with my weekend homegirl, Kiki- the wife of another of Ran's former co-workers. Ya'll know how it is when you first meet someone...gotta be all proper, watching your manners and language...til someone "breaks" and then the ghetto-ness emerges! LOL! By the end of the day, we were acting like long-lost girlfriends! Fun chick, that Kiki. Afterwards, the wedding party had dinner at a lil' Thai restaurant in Japantown, Jitlada's. Small hole in the wall on Sutter. Sorry guys, don't have the link, cross street, or menu. Hahaha. Look it up tho, the satay was yum!
After dinner, the groomsmen took Ed for his last "bachelor party." Ran wasn't in the mood, so we had some time to kill to ourselves. If ya'll remember this week, the weather was just totally awesome! Clear blue, cloudless skies! Ran decided to drive us to Twin Peaks. For a weekday, it was unusually crowded with couples holding hands, tourists taking kodak moments (us included!), guys drinkin' up, and people smokin' out. With all that happening, it was a truly perfect night with hubby...even tho we DID get a second hand high from them punks gettin' lit! Got into that sentimental mode considering that we were going to be on a plane to Minnesota in the next few days. Ya'll could clearly see the Bay Bridge and the Golden Gate Bridge, and just the sights of da City were simply breathtaking. Made me truly appreciate the beauty of San Francisco and made me realize how much I'm going to miss it. Twas a beautiful night spent with my honey and a perfect way to end my stay.
Tuesday, September 16, 2003
Mitchell's Ice Cream
This Foodnetwork fascination...yah, I'm still on it and will probably continue to be hooked to all them cooking shows. I've got so much to learn, people! Just had to quickly mention that "Roker on the Road" featured Mitchell's Ice Cream tonight! If you're anyone from S.F. or anyone who knows their way around da City, ya'll know about Mitchell's in the Mission. Mmmm...Mitchell's Mango is the best! So they did the whole history behind the family owned business segment (been in business since the 1950's!) and they talked about the different flavors they make each day and how some of the most favorite were macapuno, ube, langka, and mango! And YES, they gave credit to the influx of Asian immigrants to the area! Whoo hoo! Mentioned how all these immigrants were asking and feening for the tastes of their homeland and now, Mitchell's is one of the biggest distributors of such ice creams to most of the Asian markets and such. Plus, they get daily shipments straight from P.I. and had the owner talking about ube! Okay, maybe I'm just a bit too excited about this whole thing, but now that I'm how many states away, I'm all ears about anything Bay Area and hey, Mitchell's ice cream is hands down the best ice cream! I remember going there as a kid with my dad and afterschool during my ICA days. Add this to your list of places to eat, people, and check out for yourself why Mitchell's Ice Cream is so good! Bon appetite!
This Foodnetwork fascination...yah, I'm still on it and will probably continue to be hooked to all them cooking shows. I've got so much to learn, people! Just had to quickly mention that "Roker on the Road" featured Mitchell's Ice Cream tonight! If you're anyone from S.F. or anyone who knows their way around da City, ya'll know about Mitchell's in the Mission. Mmmm...Mitchell's Mango is the best! So they did the whole history behind the family owned business segment (been in business since the 1950's!) and they talked about the different flavors they make each day and how some of the most favorite were macapuno, ube, langka, and mango! And YES, they gave credit to the influx of Asian immigrants to the area! Whoo hoo! Mentioned how all these immigrants were asking and feening for the tastes of their homeland and now, Mitchell's is one of the biggest distributors of such ice creams to most of the Asian markets and such. Plus, they get daily shipments straight from P.I. and had the owner talking about ube! Okay, maybe I'm just a bit too excited about this whole thing, but now that I'm how many states away, I'm all ears about anything Bay Area and hey, Mitchell's ice cream is hands down the best ice cream! I remember going there as a kid with my dad and afterschool during my ICA days. Add this to your list of places to eat, people, and check out for yourself why Mitchell's Ice Cream is so good! Bon appetite!
Wow! It's been an entire week since I've last blogged. Actually, ever since hubby arrived to da City, the week pretty much flew by...places to go...people to visit...ya'll know how it is. Considering that this was going to be my "last week" in S.F., we made a point to see and visit people and places that we were going to miss. =( Boo hoo! Well, I'm back in MN after a two and half weeks- missing CA terribly, but encouraged to make the best of this new chapter in my life.
DAY 2: UNPACKING. Finished setting up the kitchen area. Our place is filled galore with boxes up to the ceiling! Hahah, okay, not really, but it gives you an idea of how much sh*t we've got to unpack. Moving is never a fun thing- NEVER. When I'm finally done, I'll try to post some pics so ya'll can see our place. Stay tuned.
SEPT 09
Hubby arrived to SFO. Twas nice to see him- almost forgot what he looked like! NOT! =) We were craving AKAGI'S so we headed there for lunch. After hanging out at home for a bit, we went to visit the Hernandez family and see newborn Noah! Mommy Ros Hernandez is one of my oldest friends (we were in 1st grade together!) and to see her with her baby was surreal and somewhat unbelievable. Baby Noah was this furry lil' thing with the thickest feet! Looks like Daddy Adolph. He was on his best behavior, surprisingly, while Auntie My and Uncle Ran were there. Times like this makes you want to have one of your own...but not just yet! (FYI: did you know that pregnant mommies can feel hiccups from their baby in utero?! I was not aware...'if you don't know, now you know'.)
SEPT 10- Hawaiian all day!
Today, Ran and I bought Hawaiian food for 3rd grade teachers at Cornerstone. It was nice to be back at work, even for just a lil' bit. After hanging out with the 3rd/4th grade crew, I got to see some of my kids! Students from my last year's class ran up to hug me and kept coaxing me to come back. I had a student on each arm and still another around my waist. Sigh...it reminded me of why I became a teacher! I will honestly miss this group of kids, probably because they were my last class. Not perfect, but definitely fun and memorable. The kids were so sweet, telling me they miss me and asking when I was coming back...or in some cases, some were wondering why I was there..."I thought you moved to Minnesota! Why are you here?!" Kids...gotta love 'em. I wandered around school, making my rounds and saying my goodbyes, even got to meet the new principal! This time around, the goodbyes weren't so hard...unlike the last day of school. I will miss the kids, the teachers, and everyone there, but I think to see them one more time was a "closure" thing at most. Yes, I'll see them again, but it'll definitely be different not to see them on a daily basis like I'm used to. I'm just corny and sentimental like that...
E Komo Mai
Had a dinner get-together with the "Hustler" crew at E Komo Mai. Yes, still more Hawaiian food. Hey man, ain't no food like this in MN so we gotta get our fill as much as we can! With the exception of lil' bro Phil and Sharmila, the rest of the gang that showed up were Dave & Carol, Roy & Chelle, Lou & Beej, Bryan & Sharon, Ron & Lin and Ran & myself...all of us either married or engaged, as Phil pointed out. Gee, makes you realize how far we've all come in life, eh? The restaurant was pretty much empty except for us and boy, us Filipinos were sure loud and rowdy! You know how it is, all jokes and whatnot and the evening continued with us loitering outside afterwards. As always, it was a fun-filled night hanging out with good friends, old and new. For those of you who haven't tried Hawaiian cuisine, try E Komo Mai located on 32nd and Judah in the Sunset. It's a yum place for plate lunches: kahlua pig, khalbi ribs, mochiko chicken, and mac salad...don't forget haupia pie for dessert. If you guys go, make sure you say hello to Auntie Fran...you'll know her when you see her! Go get your grub on!
DAY 2: UNPACKING. Finished setting up the kitchen area. Our place is filled galore with boxes up to the ceiling! Hahah, okay, not really, but it gives you an idea of how much sh*t we've got to unpack. Moving is never a fun thing- NEVER. When I'm finally done, I'll try to post some pics so ya'll can see our place. Stay tuned.
SEPT 09
Hubby arrived to SFO. Twas nice to see him- almost forgot what he looked like! NOT! =) We were craving AKAGI'S so we headed there for lunch. After hanging out at home for a bit, we went to visit the Hernandez family and see newborn Noah! Mommy Ros Hernandez is one of my oldest friends (we were in 1st grade together!) and to see her with her baby was surreal and somewhat unbelievable. Baby Noah was this furry lil' thing with the thickest feet! Looks like Daddy Adolph. He was on his best behavior, surprisingly, while Auntie My and Uncle Ran were there. Times like this makes you want to have one of your own...but not just yet! (FYI: did you know that pregnant mommies can feel hiccups from their baby in utero?! I was not aware...'if you don't know, now you know'.)
SEPT 10- Hawaiian all day!
Today, Ran and I bought Hawaiian food for 3rd grade teachers at Cornerstone. It was nice to be back at work, even for just a lil' bit. After hanging out with the 3rd/4th grade crew, I got to see some of my kids! Students from my last year's class ran up to hug me and kept coaxing me to come back. I had a student on each arm and still another around my waist. Sigh...it reminded me of why I became a teacher! I will honestly miss this group of kids, probably because they were my last class. Not perfect, but definitely fun and memorable. The kids were so sweet, telling me they miss me and asking when I was coming back...or in some cases, some were wondering why I was there..."I thought you moved to Minnesota! Why are you here?!" Kids...gotta love 'em. I wandered around school, making my rounds and saying my goodbyes, even got to meet the new principal! This time around, the goodbyes weren't so hard...unlike the last day of school. I will miss the kids, the teachers, and everyone there, but I think to see them one more time was a "closure" thing at most. Yes, I'll see them again, but it'll definitely be different not to see them on a daily basis like I'm used to. I'm just corny and sentimental like that...
E Komo Mai
Had a dinner get-together with the "Hustler" crew at E Komo Mai. Yes, still more Hawaiian food. Hey man, ain't no food like this in MN so we gotta get our fill as much as we can! With the exception of lil' bro Phil and Sharmila, the rest of the gang that showed up were Dave & Carol, Roy & Chelle, Lou & Beej, Bryan & Sharon, Ron & Lin and Ran & myself...all of us either married or engaged, as Phil pointed out. Gee, makes you realize how far we've all come in life, eh? The restaurant was pretty much empty except for us and boy, us Filipinos were sure loud and rowdy! You know how it is, all jokes and whatnot and the evening continued with us loitering outside afterwards. As always, it was a fun-filled night hanging out with good friends, old and new. For those of you who haven't tried Hawaiian cuisine, try E Komo Mai located on 32nd and Judah in the Sunset. It's a yum place for plate lunches: kahlua pig, khalbi ribs, mochiko chicken, and mac salad...don't forget haupia pie for dessert. If you guys go, make sure you say hello to Auntie Fran...you'll know her when you see her! Go get your grub on!
Tuesday, September 09, 2003
If you haven't already guessed, I love going to the beach. Many memories made and long walks taken... I can't seem to get it out of my mind. The inspiration bug has hit again. And so I give you...
Final Visit to the Beach
Tossing and turning
Turbulent, fierce
Relentless and fervent
Furious, still
Calming and nurturing
Wild and wet
Deceiving in beauty
Powerful, and yet
Deliciously beautiful
Captivatingly clear
Devastating in strength
Something to fear
Lapping and crashing
No care to its course
Silently drowning
With terrible force
The sand being pounded
The crabs disappear
The wind takes control
High tide is near
Cold to the touch
Refreshingly so
Inviting embrace
Wonderful to know
Calming my nerves
Meditating the waves
I settle all snug
As I reflect on the day
The day will be done
Too soon, I surmise
Anticipating tomorrow
The next days sunrise
Preparing to leave
I turn up my coat
Last glimpses I take
Capturing all in my heart to note
The water will flow
Never-ending in tune
Goodbye and I promise
I will return soon.
Final Visit to the Beach
Tossing and turning
Turbulent, fierce
Relentless and fervent
Furious, still
Calming and nurturing
Wild and wet
Deceiving in beauty
Powerful, and yet
Deliciously beautiful
Captivatingly clear
Devastating in strength
Something to fear
Lapping and crashing
No care to its course
Silently drowning
With terrible force
The sand being pounded
The crabs disappear
The wind takes control
High tide is near
Cold to the touch
Refreshingly so
Inviting embrace
Wonderful to know
Calming my nerves
Meditating the waves
I settle all snug
As I reflect on the day
The day will be done
Too soon, I surmise
Anticipating tomorrow
The next days sunrise
Preparing to leave
I turn up my coat
Last glimpses I take
Capturing all in my heart to note
The water will flow
Never-ending in tune
Goodbye and I promise
I will return soon.
Sunday, September 07, 2003
Weekend Happenings
Spent the weekend in Martinez visiting my sister and family. Twas nice to spend quality time with everyone. Helped my mom and sis replant some orchids...I never said I had a green thumb, so I was prepared. Just slipped on them gloves and made sure none of the soil got on me! Don't like dirt. Tis gross to me. I have this thing with getting my hands dirty...ugh, and getting them dirty with black potting soil? No way. Even having the leaves all up in my face...I imagine these eensy teeny bugs gettin' on my skin, goin' places where they shouldn't be goin' and all that other lovely stuff...No thanks. I'm sure it's due to some kind of compulsive disorder or some kind of phobia. It probably started with working with kids. You gotta wash your hands ALL THE TIME! Ain't no tellin' what germs these lil' rugrats are harboring...your hands can never be too clean! Hah! Anyways, while mom and sis worked on orchids, my niece Sabrina and I happily defaced the driveway with some sidewalk chalk. Imagine a grown woman drawing stick figures and her beloved palm tree with coconuts next to a 6-year old kid...can't get any sweeter than that!
Shopping Spree
So there was this huge sale at Macy's this weekend. Us women (plus kids) decided to hit the mall. Sunvalley Mall was crowded, but not painfully so. While I'm keeping my niece company, my mom is pushing me to look at the clearance racks. Kept pickin' tops/pants/whatnot up and saying, "Here! This will be good for you!" or "How about this?" or "What's your size again?" So, I finally get into the mood, pick out some clothes just so we could all do the trying-on-clothes together ritual. We're moving on to other racks and my mom says to my sister and I, "By the way, I'm paying!" Eh?! My sister and I do a double take...did she just say she's treating?! Mom continues," Well, since I'm paying for your Dad's surgeries (totalling close to the ungodly number of $200,000!), I could go on a shopping spree!" Well, okay then! If I had known that Mom was going to pay, then I wouldn't have wasted all that time playing around! Mom paid about $140 for the three of us...for a total of 12 items, that wasn't bad. Twasn't bad at all. Looking back at that Saturday, I was thinking about what might've been going through my mom's head that day. I can't remember when was the last time my sister and I went shopping with her! With me leaving the City for Minnesota soon, I think that it made her happy that she could buy those clothes for us AND simply, just spend time with her kids and grandkids. Thanks Mom!
So-en vs. Victoria
For those who don't know or who haven't had the "pleasure" of wearing So-en...these are underwear from the Philippines. It's your basic cotton panty that comes in different colors AND different designs- mainly floral. It's one of those "gifts" that everyone gets when someone comes back from PI. When someone comes from Hawaii, they bring gifts of chocolate covered macadamia nuts or puka shells...when someone comes from New York, they bring gifts with the Empire State building or Statue of Liberty...when people come from PI, they give you So-en underwear! Well, I had sworn So-en underwear off when I started working and vowed I'd never own a pair as long as Victoria made hers...
So my mom calls out, "Myra, what size panty do you wear?"
I hesitatingly answer, "Um, why?" but really knowing and dreading what's coming.
Mom comes into the bedroom with the recognizable plastic..."Oh, your Tita Vicky sent some."
"Give it to Ate..she'll wear those," I tell her.
"She already got some. Here take these."
"I don't wear those anymore." Really. I swore I'd never wear them again!
"Bakit? It's just for everyday!"
She hands it to me with this look that only moms have that means that I SHOULD take it.
"Oh, okay. Thanks."
It's not like there's anything wrong with them...they're the basic cotton kind...nothing fancy...BUT just more on the grandma type of underwear you wouldn't be caught wearing! Haha, it's cool...and like Mom says, "it's just for everyday!" Alright Mom...I'll take them, but I won't guarantee that I'll use them...
Spent the weekend in Martinez visiting my sister and family. Twas nice to spend quality time with everyone. Helped my mom and sis replant some orchids...I never said I had a green thumb, so I was prepared. Just slipped on them gloves and made sure none of the soil got on me! Don't like dirt. Tis gross to me. I have this thing with getting my hands dirty...ugh, and getting them dirty with black potting soil? No way. Even having the leaves all up in my face...I imagine these eensy teeny bugs gettin' on my skin, goin' places where they shouldn't be goin' and all that other lovely stuff...No thanks. I'm sure it's due to some kind of compulsive disorder or some kind of phobia. It probably started with working with kids. You gotta wash your hands ALL THE TIME! Ain't no tellin' what germs these lil' rugrats are harboring...your hands can never be too clean! Hah! Anyways, while mom and sis worked on orchids, my niece Sabrina and I happily defaced the driveway with some sidewalk chalk. Imagine a grown woman drawing stick figures and her beloved palm tree with coconuts next to a 6-year old kid...can't get any sweeter than that!
Shopping Spree
So there was this huge sale at Macy's this weekend. Us women (plus kids) decided to hit the mall. Sunvalley Mall was crowded, but not painfully so. While I'm keeping my niece company, my mom is pushing me to look at the clearance racks. Kept pickin' tops/pants/whatnot up and saying, "Here! This will be good for you!" or "How about this?" or "What's your size again?" So, I finally get into the mood, pick out some clothes just so we could all do the trying-on-clothes together ritual. We're moving on to other racks and my mom says to my sister and I, "By the way, I'm paying!" Eh?! My sister and I do a double take...did she just say she's treating?! Mom continues," Well, since I'm paying for your Dad's surgeries (totalling close to the ungodly number of $200,000!), I could go on a shopping spree!" Well, okay then! If I had known that Mom was going to pay, then I wouldn't have wasted all that time playing around! Mom paid about $140 for the three of us...for a total of 12 items, that wasn't bad. Twasn't bad at all. Looking back at that Saturday, I was thinking about what might've been going through my mom's head that day. I can't remember when was the last time my sister and I went shopping with her! With me leaving the City for Minnesota soon, I think that it made her happy that she could buy those clothes for us AND simply, just spend time with her kids and grandkids. Thanks Mom!
So-en vs. Victoria
For those who don't know or who haven't had the "pleasure" of wearing So-en...these are underwear from the Philippines. It's your basic cotton panty that comes in different colors AND different designs- mainly floral. It's one of those "gifts" that everyone gets when someone comes back from PI. When someone comes from Hawaii, they bring gifts of chocolate covered macadamia nuts or puka shells...when someone comes from New York, they bring gifts with the Empire State building or Statue of Liberty...when people come from PI, they give you So-en underwear! Well, I had sworn So-en underwear off when I started working and vowed I'd never own a pair as long as Victoria made hers...
So my mom calls out, "Myra, what size panty do you wear?"
I hesitatingly answer, "Um, why?" but really knowing and dreading what's coming.
Mom comes into the bedroom with the recognizable plastic..."Oh, your Tita Vicky sent some."
"Give it to Ate..she'll wear those," I tell her.
"She already got some. Here take these."
"I don't wear those anymore." Really. I swore I'd never wear them again!
"Bakit? It's just for everyday!"
She hands it to me with this look that only moms have that means that I SHOULD take it.
"Oh, okay. Thanks."
It's not like there's anything wrong with them...they're the basic cotton kind...nothing fancy...BUT just more on the grandma type of underwear you wouldn't be caught wearing! Haha, it's cool...and like Mom says, "it's just for everyday!" Alright Mom...I'll take them, but I won't guarantee that I'll use them...
Friday, September 05, 2003
I've learned that when the inspiration hits, don't question it. It's rare for me to have words come thru my mind poem-like. It doesn't matter what inspired me to write, it's important that I just get it down. I just realized that "Beach at Sunset" and this one has a similar ending...haha, me and having the urge to have something "done." Sounds productive! LOL!
The Quarrel
words unspoken
emotions unsettled
spirit exhausted
world overturned
assumptions mistaken
hearts overwhelmed
jealousy rages
explanations unheard
errands interrupted
phone calls unanswered
frustration unfounded
solutions unseen
sighs surrendering
faith forgiving
hopes fulfilling
life worth living
words spoken
emotions settled
spirit restored
quarrel is done
The Quarrel
words unspoken
emotions unsettled
spirit exhausted
world overturned
assumptions mistaken
hearts overwhelmed
jealousy rages
explanations unheard
errands interrupted
phone calls unanswered
frustration unfounded
solutions unseen
sighs surrendering
faith forgiving
hopes fulfilling
life worth living
words spoken
emotions settled
spirit restored
quarrel is done
Inspiration
Of all the things that I will unmistakenly miss in San Francisco, it will be the beach. Ocean Beach. It's not the cleanest, safest, most beautiful or best smelling beach, but it's the one that I'd go to find solace whenever needed. This beach is a huge part of me and for as long as I can remember, I could be found walking the water's edge searching for sand dollars or watching the waves crash along the shore. Anyways, I found the inspiration to write today.
Beach at Sunset
Endless pounding
Retreating silence
Reverberating
No beginning
No end
Enchanting twilight
Serenity blue
Fading
A beginning to
An end
Night encompassing
Luminous stars
Calling
Moon rising
Day is done.
Of all the things that I will unmistakenly miss in San Francisco, it will be the beach. Ocean Beach. It's not the cleanest, safest, most beautiful or best smelling beach, but it's the one that I'd go to find solace whenever needed. This beach is a huge part of me and for as long as I can remember, I could be found walking the water's edge searching for sand dollars or watching the waves crash along the shore. Anyways, I found the inspiration to write today.
Beach at Sunset
Endless pounding
Retreating silence
Reverberating
No beginning
No end
Enchanting twilight
Serenity blue
Fading
A beginning to
An end
Night encompassing
Luminous stars
Calling
Moon rising
Day is done.
Thursday, September 04, 2003
I got the following list from my Dad's office...he got it through an email and had it posted. Thought I'd do the same here.
It's entitled, "the list we should all carry around."
The most destructive habit.....................................................Worry
The greatest joy.....................................................................Giving
The greatest loss....................................................................Loss of Self-Respect
The most satisfying work........................................................Helping Others
The ugliest personality trait....................................................Selfishness
The most endangered species................................................Dedicated Leaders
Our greatest natural resource................................................Our youth
The greatest "shot in the arm"...............................................Encouragement
The greatest problem to overcome.........................................Fear
The most effective sleeping pill...............................................Peace of Mind
The most crippling failure disease...........................................Excuses
The most powerful force in life................................................Love
The most dangerous pariah....................................................A Gossiper
The world's most incredible computer.....................................The Brain
The worst thing to be without.................................................Hope
The deadliest weapon.............................................................The Tongue
The two most powerful words................................................."I Can"
The greatest asset..................................................................Faith
The most worthless emotion...................................................Self-pity
The most beautiful attire.........................................................A Smile
The most prized possession....................................................Integrity
The most contagious spirit.......................................................Enthusiasm
The most powerful channel of communication..........................Prayer
It's entitled, "the list we should all carry around."
The most destructive habit.....................................................Worry
The greatest joy.....................................................................Giving
The greatest loss....................................................................Loss of Self-Respect
The most satisfying work........................................................Helping Others
The ugliest personality trait....................................................Selfishness
The most endangered species................................................Dedicated Leaders
Our greatest natural resource................................................Our youth
The greatest "shot in the arm"...............................................Encouragement
The greatest problem to overcome.........................................Fear
The most effective sleeping pill...............................................Peace of Mind
The most crippling failure disease...........................................Excuses
The most powerful force in life................................................Love
The most dangerous pariah....................................................A Gossiper
The world's most incredible computer.....................................The Brain
The worst thing to be without.................................................Hope
The deadliest weapon.............................................................The Tongue
The two most powerful words................................................."I Can"
The greatest asset..................................................................Faith
The most worthless emotion...................................................Self-pity
The most beautiful attire.........................................................A Smile
The most prized possession....................................................Integrity
The most contagious spirit.......................................................Enthusiasm
The most powerful channel of communication..........................Prayer
Tuesday, September 02, 2003
Labor Day festivities
I had the pleasure of hanging out with the Penalosa clan today. Miss Penalosa and Em picked me up and were off to the East Bay. 'Twas so nice to see them and catch and tsismis for a bit- YOU KNOW! It was just our luck that Em flew in from beautiful Hawaii for the weekend to visit the folks. =) Anyways, Ruth, Rod, and Ken just got their own place and just the day before decided to throw a lil' bbq. Can I just say, YUM?! Ruth, the master chef, threw together some delicious dishes...I mean, that girl can cook! (and she looked so naturelle, too!) I also got to see my ina-anak, Raegan...the cutest lil' thing! This was only my 3rd time ever seeing her and gee, don't they grow up so fast? She had just woken up from her nap and well, you know how kids get when when they wake up? They're all cranky, shy, and clingy...just like Nico! But after having some snacks, she warmed up to me...YAY! It was cool to see and hang out with the rest of the clan...reminded me of back in the day when we all hung out about once a week! (Uh oh, is this another flashback?!) Well, considering that we grew up together doing Barangay, church, choir, caroling, Simbang Gabi, cotillions, and the many, many rosaries, we're all like family. Was excited to see my Kumare Wena...we've been TRYING oh, so many times to get together for dinner and whatnot, for gee, about 5 YEARS! Goodness! Yah, that sounds about right..ever since her wedding, we said we'd hang out, but we never did. And now that I'm off to MN, we're going to try this week to really see it thru.
In fact, I have to give credit to the Penalosa gang for helping me figure out my future. Seriously. It all started back to my SF State days when I was looking for a job. Wena had been working at Wells Fargo Bank as a teller downtown. She told me there was an opening, I interviewed, and was hired. She totally hooked up my "first real job." Haha! Okay, so I only lasted for six months! Details, details. It's not that I was let go or anything; I honestly couldn't hang. The branch that we worked at was the 2nd largest in the City...I mean, they even had bullet-proof windows! It was smack dab in the middle of the financial district and the majority of its customers were big money-makin' business folk. Oh, I forgot to mention, the arrogant-I've-been-a-customer-here-for-over-20-years-and-I-don't-have-to-show-you-my-ID kind of business people. Hmmph. Yah. It was a good experience, nonetheless, but still. Haha, only six months. After I graduated from State, once again I was looking for a job. Rach had been working at a private school in an afterschool program. She told me about it, I interviewed, and was hired. (Coincidentally, we also worked together as co-teachers in the School of Religion CCD program at our church. Did that for 5 years! Plus, she was also my partner in crime in helping me decide that teaching was the way to go!) My first week- I HATED it! I mean, it wasn't the fact that this had been one of my first times dealing with kids, but I don't feel that the people who "trained" me were any good. I didn't feel confident or prepared to be in and deal with the situations I did. BUT, as time went on, I began to like it and eventually, LOVED it. I started working more hours, did Winter and Spring breaks, and worked with all grades from Sr. Preschool to 6th grade! I'll guess my supervisor at the time was "impressed" with me and asked me to sub for teachers going on maternity leave. Did that three times. I did that for two years! With the school expanding and having three-year wait lists, new teaching positions opened up. Once again, I had to go to another interview (this time by the entire Admin staff!). I was interviewed, and was hired. (deja vu?!) I originally had my heart set on Kindergarten, but since I had just finished subbing that year for a teacher on maternity in 3rd grade, I got the new 3rd grade position. Isn't it funny that it all started off working in an afterschool program at noneother than CORNERSTONE ACADEMY? I feel blessed to have worked there for 5 years. I met so many inspiring people that I will always treasure my time there. Am I done yet? Hehe, almost! THEN, there's Rod. Rod had been taking classes at University of Phoenix for his degree. I had mentioned to him that I needed to go back to school for my teaching credential and that it was so hard for me to do school AND work at the same time. I don't know HOW other people do it! (Well, I know it's because I'm just not as focused and plus, I had just WAY too much fun in college AND after graduating, I never thought I'd ever have to go again...so um, yah...) Anyways, Rod told me that UOP has an online program. I mean, people can get their degrees, certifications, etc, entirely online. I was hesitant at first, but after doing some research and realizing that I didn't have to go into an actual classroom and go to class whenever I felt, I went for it. I signed up, got financial aid, and started class. Definitely a rigorous program, but I have learned and benefitted MORE than I did when I was in the credential program at State. Now, not only am I working towards my teaching credential, BUT my Masters in Education as well! Oh, and not to leave Ruth out! Back in the day, we all took a trip down to Fresno for Tita Lulu and Tito Manny's anniversary. The ceremony and reception was to be at their relative's dope house. The Barangay kids prepared a program and I remember Ruth wrote a poem. I mean, we were all young then, but when I saw her creativity shine through, I got inspired. I don't consider myself a good writer, but I've tried my hand at it here and there. So there you have it...the Penalosa gang has been there for me and I totally love them like my own family! They probably don't even realize how much of an impact they've had on my life...hopefully one day, I can do something just as great for them as they did for me.
I had the pleasure of hanging out with the Penalosa clan today. Miss Penalosa and Em picked me up and were off to the East Bay. 'Twas so nice to see them and catch and tsismis for a bit- YOU KNOW! It was just our luck that Em flew in from beautiful Hawaii for the weekend to visit the folks. =) Anyways, Ruth, Rod, and Ken just got their own place and just the day before decided to throw a lil' bbq. Can I just say, YUM?! Ruth, the master chef, threw together some delicious dishes...I mean, that girl can cook! (and she looked so naturelle, too!) I also got to see my ina-anak, Raegan...the cutest lil' thing! This was only my 3rd time ever seeing her and gee, don't they grow up so fast? She had just woken up from her nap and well, you know how kids get when when they wake up? They're all cranky, shy, and clingy...just like Nico! But after having some snacks, she warmed up to me...YAY! It was cool to see and hang out with the rest of the clan...reminded me of back in the day when we all hung out about once a week! (Uh oh, is this another flashback?!) Well, considering that we grew up together doing Barangay, church, choir, caroling, Simbang Gabi, cotillions, and the many, many rosaries, we're all like family. Was excited to see my Kumare Wena...we've been TRYING oh, so many times to get together for dinner and whatnot, for gee, about 5 YEARS! Goodness! Yah, that sounds about right..ever since her wedding, we said we'd hang out, but we never did. And now that I'm off to MN, we're going to try this week to really see it thru.
In fact, I have to give credit to the Penalosa gang for helping me figure out my future. Seriously. It all started back to my SF State days when I was looking for a job. Wena had been working at Wells Fargo Bank as a teller downtown. She told me there was an opening, I interviewed, and was hired. She totally hooked up my "first real job." Haha! Okay, so I only lasted for six months! Details, details. It's not that I was let go or anything; I honestly couldn't hang. The branch that we worked at was the 2nd largest in the City...I mean, they even had bullet-proof windows! It was smack dab in the middle of the financial district and the majority of its customers were big money-makin' business folk. Oh, I forgot to mention, the arrogant-I've-been-a-customer-here-for-over-20-years-and-I-don't-have-to-show-you-my-ID kind of business people. Hmmph. Yah. It was a good experience, nonetheless, but still. Haha, only six months. After I graduated from State, once again I was looking for a job. Rach had been working at a private school in an afterschool program. She told me about it, I interviewed, and was hired. (Coincidentally, we also worked together as co-teachers in the School of Religion CCD program at our church. Did that for 5 years! Plus, she was also my partner in crime in helping me decide that teaching was the way to go!) My first week- I HATED it! I mean, it wasn't the fact that this had been one of my first times dealing with kids, but I don't feel that the people who "trained" me were any good. I didn't feel confident or prepared to be in and deal with the situations I did. BUT, as time went on, I began to like it and eventually, LOVED it. I started working more hours, did Winter and Spring breaks, and worked with all grades from Sr. Preschool to 6th grade! I'll guess my supervisor at the time was "impressed" with me and asked me to sub for teachers going on maternity leave. Did that three times. I did that for two years! With the school expanding and having three-year wait lists, new teaching positions opened up. Once again, I had to go to another interview (this time by the entire Admin staff!). I was interviewed, and was hired. (deja vu?!) I originally had my heart set on Kindergarten, but since I had just finished subbing that year for a teacher on maternity in 3rd grade, I got the new 3rd grade position. Isn't it funny that it all started off working in an afterschool program at noneother than CORNERSTONE ACADEMY? I feel blessed to have worked there for 5 years. I met so many inspiring people that I will always treasure my time there. Am I done yet? Hehe, almost! THEN, there's Rod. Rod had been taking classes at University of Phoenix for his degree. I had mentioned to him that I needed to go back to school for my teaching credential and that it was so hard for me to do school AND work at the same time. I don't know HOW other people do it! (Well, I know it's because I'm just not as focused and plus, I had just WAY too much fun in college AND after graduating, I never thought I'd ever have to go again...so um, yah...) Anyways, Rod told me that UOP has an online program. I mean, people can get their degrees, certifications, etc, entirely online. I was hesitant at first, but after doing some research and realizing that I didn't have to go into an actual classroom and go to class whenever I felt, I went for it. I signed up, got financial aid, and started class. Definitely a rigorous program, but I have learned and benefitted MORE than I did when I was in the credential program at State. Now, not only am I working towards my teaching credential, BUT my Masters in Education as well! Oh, and not to leave Ruth out! Back in the day, we all took a trip down to Fresno for Tita Lulu and Tito Manny's anniversary. The ceremony and reception was to be at their relative's dope house. The Barangay kids prepared a program and I remember Ruth wrote a poem. I mean, we were all young then, but when I saw her creativity shine through, I got inspired. I don't consider myself a good writer, but I've tried my hand at it here and there. So there you have it...the Penalosa gang has been there for me and I totally love them like my own family! They probably don't even realize how much of an impact they've had on my life...hopefully one day, I can do something just as great for them as they did for me.
Monday, September 01, 2003
Dad's Home!
Dad is home and all is well! Hehe, know what that means? Lots of visitors and free food! For some odd reason, most of the visitors that've come thru have all brought Goldilock's Mamon! Haha, don't get me wrong, it's light, tasty, and finger lickin' good, but how about somethin' else for comfort food? The last time he had surgery, we all had to give 'em away by the boxes 'cuz we had so many...Like today, relatives from S.J. brought siopao...YUM! That's what I'm talkin' about! Needless to say, it's great to see Pops up and about and just being in the comfort of his own home.
The WORSE Target Run!
After picking up Pops from the hospital, Ate, kids, and I decided to check out Target! (the BEST store ever! AND...fyi: the main headquarters is located in, noneother than, MINNESOTA!)(btw: Targets are everywhere in MN...kinda like how there is an overabundance of ABC stores in Hawaii...same thing!) Y'know, with it being Labor Day weekend and all, people are supposed to be outta town...why're all of you here at Target today?! Good Lord, it was so damn crowded- literally bumping into kids, carts, people left and right. I KNEW we should've went to the one in Foster City! Target at Bridgepoint plaza is da best, cleanest, neatest, and well-stocked Target that I know of. BUT, the whole hassle wasn't completely a bust. We ran into some old friends, the Santos family, with their newest edition. Kendrick Michael, oh, what a cutie! Tis always nice to run into friends whom you haven't seen in so long...and such a great feeling when you can just pick up right where you left off in the friendship...as it should be in ANY friendship. Doesn't and shouldn't matter how long it's been since you've last kept in touch...true friendships know no time and distance...but that's just me.
Belated Congratulations!
I'm terribly disappointed with myself. This kind of thing never happens to me. I'm always pretty good about things like this, but I slipped. I pride myself in remembering people's birthdays (and other special days) and always make a point to let them know they were in my thoughts. I can't believe it, but I FORGOT our friends' wedding anniversary...their FIRST ONE! Belated Happy 1st Anniversary to the Lapid's! Here's to many more years of much love and happiness!
New Mommies
It's that time when friends my own age are having babies! Remember when it was our parent's friends who were having kids? Now, it's our turn! Just makes you realize that we're all gettin' older- yes Mnm, let's shove that grim reminder in everyone's face! Anyways, just wanted to congratulate the Hernandez family for their little bundle of joy! I was lucky to have seen Mommy Hernandez twice during her pregnancy...she was looking more like a teenage mom than the pediatric nurse that she is! Plus, she was totally bustin' out of the Old Navy overalls she was sportin'. Hey, what can I say? Us Filipinos / Asians age gracefully! Being that she is one of my oldest friends from grade school (we were in 1st grade together!), it's just yet another reminder of how far we've come in life and age. Welcome to the world, Noah!
Congrats also go out to the Low family for their newest edition, Russell. Mommy Low must be enjoying the time away from teaching and getting used to sleepness nights and neverending diapers. Newborns are just sometimes the easiest to take care of...to me, they're like rabbits: all they do is eat, sleep, and poop. Funny, but it's true!
Goodbye August...
Hello September! Wow! The 1st of Sept. already...where does the time go? Is this a rhetorical question? Haha, whatever. At almost 3am in the morning, it's just time to go to sleep. Zzzzzzz...
Dad is home and all is well! Hehe, know what that means? Lots of visitors and free food! For some odd reason, most of the visitors that've come thru have all brought Goldilock's Mamon! Haha, don't get me wrong, it's light, tasty, and finger lickin' good, but how about somethin' else for comfort food? The last time he had surgery, we all had to give 'em away by the boxes 'cuz we had so many...Like today, relatives from S.J. brought siopao...YUM! That's what I'm talkin' about! Needless to say, it's great to see Pops up and about and just being in the comfort of his own home.
The WORSE Target Run!
After picking up Pops from the hospital, Ate, kids, and I decided to check out Target! (the BEST store ever! AND...fyi: the main headquarters is located in, noneother than, MINNESOTA!)(btw: Targets are everywhere in MN...kinda like how there is an overabundance of ABC stores in Hawaii...same thing!) Y'know, with it being Labor Day weekend and all, people are supposed to be outta town...why're all of you here at Target today?! Good Lord, it was so damn crowded- literally bumping into kids, carts, people left and right. I KNEW we should've went to the one in Foster City! Target at Bridgepoint plaza is da best, cleanest, neatest, and well-stocked Target that I know of. BUT, the whole hassle wasn't completely a bust. We ran into some old friends, the Santos family, with their newest edition. Kendrick Michael, oh, what a cutie! Tis always nice to run into friends whom you haven't seen in so long...and such a great feeling when you can just pick up right where you left off in the friendship...as it should be in ANY friendship. Doesn't and shouldn't matter how long it's been since you've last kept in touch...true friendships know no time and distance...but that's just me.
Belated Congratulations!
I'm terribly disappointed with myself. This kind of thing never happens to me. I'm always pretty good about things like this, but I slipped. I pride myself in remembering people's birthdays (and other special days) and always make a point to let them know they were in my thoughts. I can't believe it, but I FORGOT our friends' wedding anniversary...their FIRST ONE! Belated Happy 1st Anniversary to the Lapid's! Here's to many more years of much love and happiness!
New Mommies
It's that time when friends my own age are having babies! Remember when it was our parent's friends who were having kids? Now, it's our turn! Just makes you realize that we're all gettin' older- yes Mnm, let's shove that grim reminder in everyone's face! Anyways, just wanted to congratulate the Hernandez family for their little bundle of joy! I was lucky to have seen Mommy Hernandez twice during her pregnancy...she was looking more like a teenage mom than the pediatric nurse that she is! Plus, she was totally bustin' out of the Old Navy overalls she was sportin'. Hey, what can I say? Us Filipinos / Asians age gracefully! Being that she is one of my oldest friends from grade school (we were in 1st grade together!), it's just yet another reminder of how far we've come in life and age. Welcome to the world, Noah!
Congrats also go out to the Low family for their newest edition, Russell. Mommy Low must be enjoying the time away from teaching and getting used to sleepness nights and neverending diapers. Newborns are just sometimes the easiest to take care of...to me, they're like rabbits: all they do is eat, sleep, and poop. Funny, but it's true!
Goodbye August...
Hello September! Wow! The 1st of Sept. already...where does the time go? Is this a rhetorical question? Haha, whatever. At almost 3am in the morning, it's just time to go to sleep. Zzzzzzz...
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